Are you asking yourself this question why did I break up with my girlfriend/boyfriend? Do you feel you have made the biggest mistake letting your ex go at the first place? Do you want your ex back desperately and you don’t know how to go about it? Do you feel that your life is drifting away when your ex left you? If this is the situation you are in right now, you are not alone. This happen every time and most surprisingly some just like you find themselves thinking how can I get my ex back? Sometimes you get carried away you start feeling your ex wants the same thing you want but you need to realize that your ex has other things that might be on there mind so you know that you are going to work hard to get your ex back, I don’t mean swimming an ocean length and breath. Here are 3 shocking secrets that is guaranteed to bring your ex back 1 Show her you have changed So many people see the bad things that there ex did when they were together but never realize that they are actually the major problem, hope I didn’t lose you there. What I’m trying to say in essence is that you hardly change someone else if you can’t admit that you also need a change. So many times it is actually you that need to change for the relationship to work out. 2 Make your ex feel special Even at some distance there are ways you can make your ex feel special, if it means calling your ex every other hour to ask how her day was going, I don’t mean you start terrorizing her/he with phone calls because every thing has limit you should know that of course. Let me share with you what I did when I was trying to make my ex feel special on her birthday: apart from the gift I bought her that blew her away, I sent her lovely messages every 2 hours through out her birthday. That got us back together. 3 Go back to the start I told I good friend of mine this exact step and he laughed at it at the first time because he could not fully understand what I meant, to get your ex back you need to rediscover that spark that was there at the beginning of the relationship. It is sometimes normal to forget how you started, what made your partner happy, what made your partner want you more. To get your ex back you need to go back to the start and think of those things that brought about the spark so that you can bring it back.