It is often hard to realize that the man you love is gone. Every cell in your brain is telling you he dumped you, but your heart Will not accept it. You find yourself sitting by the phone hoping it will ring, but you know it will not. This is a form of denial and you have to face the fact that your boyfriend dumped you. This will not be easy to do but getting your ex back after a breakup requires you to face the truth. When you have cleared your head you can think of ways to make your ex boyfriend regret dumping you.

You will have to tone down your actions a bit. Once you are thinking again, your instincts will urge you to go after him and make him feel sorry right away. That will not work so soon after the breakup. This is what he is expecting you to do and he will be ready for you. He will not listen to you or talk to you. It will be like hitting a brick wall. You will not be able to work on his pity either.  He will just turn a deaf ear to your crying and begging. The best thing you can do at this time is leave him alone. You have to give him time to think over what he has done. By giving him time and space to work things out, you will earn his thanks and respect.

Your first step to make your ex boyfriend regret dumping you is to make him miss you. When he starts to miss you the regret will set in. To do this you will need to cut off all contact with him. This means no phone calls, emails or text messages as well as face to face contact.By dropping completely out of sight for a few weeks you will be letting him see his life without you . Soon he will notice the void that being with out you has caused in his life. This will make him have a feeling of loss and men are quick to want to recover something they have lost.

Feeling this loss will be a call to action for him. Since you are what he feels he has lost, he will come hunting you. This is what you have been working for, but you need to restrain yourself. You cannot make him regret dumping you if you just fall right back into his arms. You have to make him work to get you back. He dumped you once and if you make it too easy to come back, he may do it again. You cannot let him feel that he can treat you anyway he wants to and you will always take him back. The way to get your ex back and never let him take you for granted, is to never let him think he has you completely.