Cheating is one of those things that many people never plan on doing. There are a few who say they would do it if they knew, without a doubt, they'd never get caught. But, for most people the fear or getting caught and risking the wonderful relationships they are in at the moment is too much for them to take. That's actually a good thing.

Now, for those who do take the risk, does it mean they are bad people? No, definitely not. Does it mean they are deficient somehow? Nope. That's the wrong answer too. So what does it mean?

More often than not, when someone cheats it's because they feel they've already lost something special or they've discovered that they aren't getting what they really need from the relationship they have?

Am I saying that it's all your fault if your partner cheated on you? No way at all! Cheating is a decision that someone made. Right or wrong it happened because of an active choice made by the other person. That is not your fault.

Does that mean you couldn't have prevented it even if you wanted to? Not really.

Confused yet?

Relationships require work to be successful. No matter how much you love the other person if you aren't both tending to matters at home one or both of you are not going to be happy with the life of its own your relationship seems to be taking. It's time to rein in the runaway horse your relationship has become and get your house in order.

Consider counseling. Counseling is not only for couples. You can get counseling that will help you relate to your wife and even help you learn to see things from her point of view. If you can convince her to go with you to couples' counseling sessions it will be even better for both of you as you can work together to make your relationship stronger. It's also a sure sign that she is interested in making things better between the two of you.

Be romantic. How long has it been since you've really turned on the charm for your wife. While you may not need the romance, she does. If you want to keep her happy with you, it is a good idea to feed the need for romance every once in a while. Buy her small but meaningful trinkets. Write poetry or silly love songs for her. Let the world know how much she means to you.

Share your dreams. Sharing your dreams together is a huge bonding experience for couples. Working together to accomplish those dreams makes those bonds even stronger. See what a difference it can make in your relationship.

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