Seeing the man you love walk away after a breakup, can tear your heart out. There goes all of your hopes and dreams for a future with him. Your life is shattered and you want to just go somewhere and hide. That might be the best thing that you can do for a few weeks. Go somewhere and hide. At the very least you should not go near your ex or have any contact with him at all. If you do it will only frustrate you further and the hurt will become even more intense .

When he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend was prepared for you to do your best to get him back. He was expecting you to run after him crying and begging him to come back. Your ex was expecting phone calls late at night, with you screaming that you cannot live without him. He was expecting to be bombarded with emails and text messages and he is prepared to hurt you again by ignoring all of your attempts to communicate with him. This will feed his ego and let him know that he owns you.

When a man feels he owns a woman, he will know that he is free to go out and check out what else is out there. He can even do some dating and if things do not work out , she will be waiting. You cannot let this happen to you if you hope to have a future with your man. You have to show him right at the start that you are not the waiting kind.

Do not chase him or communicate in any way . He is ignoring you, so ignore him. Act as if you accept the breakup and you are starting a new life without him. Go out with friends and have a good time. Take up a new hobby or do volunteer work. Spend more time with your family and lean on them for support. All of this time you will be getting your emotions back in shape. You will also be showing your ex boyfriend that you can have a life without him.

By not doing what your ex thought you would do, he will be gaining respect for you. Soon he will feel the void in his life that being without you is causing and he will start to miss you. When a man starts missing you he will want to be back with you as soon as possible. This will prompt your ex to call you. Do not get all excited and answer it on the first ring. Let him leave a message and then wait a couple of days and call him back.

Tell him you are glad he called because you have been wanting to thank him for the breakup. Add that you feel so free and happy again. This will knock him for a loop and he will be stunned. Now you will have him begging for another chance and you will be glad you did not give up until you followed these tips.