Many people in relationships where cheating has taken place believe that breakups are the only possible solution to the problem. We've been conditioned to believe that for women, a cheating husband or boyfriend is the ultimate relationship no-no. It's worse than the old uh-oh, oh-no, and oops you'll come across on any given day and twice on Sunday in the eyes of many women.

However, a breakup is only a solution to the problems that cheating creates (or in most cases reveals) if you choose for it to be a solution. In other words, you have the power here.

You can let it be the end of your relationship or you can dig deep down inside and find the strength it will take to turn this relationship lemon of a situation into some of the sweetest lemonade you've ever had the pleasure of sippin'.

Letting go of the Fairy Tale

You are the only one who can let a cheating boyfriend be the end of your dreams of happily ever after with the man of your dreams. The problem is that we have these expectations that are born of fairy tales.

Women want Prince Charming. You want the handsome prince to swoop in and sweep you off your feet. The problem doesn't arise until you realize that even Mr. Charming has a few warts of his own. The illusion is shattered and problems arise for the sake of the relationship.

Sometimes it takes being with another woman for him to truly appreciate the woman he has at home. He might think the grass is greener elsewhere. But, once he's sampled that other grass he realizes that the grass is much better where at home with you.

Rewriting Your Own Happy Ending

You don't have to give up the fairy tale ideal completely. You can still enjoy your happily ever after if your handsome prince has cheated on you.

Your first instinct may have been to send your prince packing. Now that you've had time to think things through you've had a change of heart right? Your problem may be that he thinks he's moved on without you.

The good news is that it isn't easy for men and women to just turn off their emotions and move on after a relationship has ended. Time is on your side for the moment. What you need to know and understand fully though is that you are the only one who can let your boyfriend's cheating completely derail your relationship.

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