The most common reasons why your relationship ended & how to get your ex back

If your relationship recently ended, I know how you must feel, as if your insides are being torn apart, as if the future is dark and ominous, but understand that these feelings are temporary, and a good first step is to understand why you relationship ended and what you can do to heal the wounds with your ex.

If you or your ex cheated, the important concept to think about is - why? Some men (and women!) are dogs, and you should have respect for yourself if your partner truly didn't care about you enough to commit an act such as adultery. However, it's vital to consider when the turning point occurred. Why did your ex cheat on you? For men, it may have been that the male didn't feel admired by the woman, for example. For women, she may have not feel appreciated, and the lack of respect she felt was satisfied by another lover.

If you and your ex constantly were fighting - ask yourself what the true reasons behind the constant fighting were. Many times we are fighting about small issues when there are larger more sensitive issues at the stake which for whatever reason we feel uncomfortable talking about. Did your relationship end because there was a lack of honesty and one member resorted to this kind of passive aggressive behavior?

Cheating and fighting are the two most common reasons why people break up. However, there are several more less obvious reasons which are vital if you're interested in attracting your ex back again, or if you just want a better chance with your next partner.

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