To love and to be loved are two different things. If you are loved, you feel like the ruler of someone’s heart and you have the threads at your hand to move your ex according to your whims. But if you love someone and she is the ruler of your heart and has deserted you, then it is the time to turn the table on.

Feeling emotionally weak after the breakup is certainly natural. But don’t expose your weakness to your girlfriend. Don’t make her assured that you cannot live without her or don’t make her feel that she is the only source of joyful life for you. Unless you do this, your girlfriend will have the confidence that leaving you was her right decision. That is why be strong, confident and competent in appearance to handle the things alone, if you want to get your ex girlfriend back.

Give her some time to miss you. After all, the regular constant touch may have made your relations boring, stale and dull. Therefore, instead of stalking, let her at some distance from you for some days. You can employ this given time for self-evaluation and make changes in your personality. Chisel your qualities, your exceptional talents and let the time come to outwit her and to give her the shock of surprise that you are not the ‘poor guy’ but a handsome and dandy fellow.

It is universal truth that girls feel jealous of other ‘competitor’ in looks. Try this formula. Pretend that you have found something more beautiful and attractive girlfriend. This will make your ex girlfriend conscious and curious about you and with the feeling of insecurity she will try to snatch you back and in any how you will get your ex girlfriend back.

Thus, confronting the broken relations skillfully is the right move to reconcile the relations. Don’t feel sour and bitter, but exploit this situation as a better opportunity to outwit your ex girlfriend. Give her the time to think about you and you should also improve your personality in the given time seeing your this type of your attitude she will need you and you will be successful to get your ex girlfriend back.