The truth is you don't have to be dumped if you do not want to be dumped. I have 4 heart saving tips on ?tid=ab48" " how to survive a break up that will show you how. Why is it when someone takes something away from us we choose to struggle first, and think later? Human nature I guess, we tend to act like children when we get dumped. But, if you use your head before your mouth, you can turn the dumper into the one being dumped, and survive this break up.

How To Survive A Break Up And Not Get Dumped -Tip 1

When your ex tells you they want to breakup, let them. Do not get upset, just agree with the break up. If it is a mutual breakup, then no one gets dumped...Right? Plus this will take away any power your ex has over you and give you the control. Having control over the situation is key to surviving a break up.

How To Survive A Break Up And Not Get Dumped -Tip 2

Now that you avoided getting dumped do not lose any ground by trying to keep tabs on your ex. This means you should start using the no contact rule, and stick with it. If you really want to survive this break up, and not get dumped you have to stay in control. The no contact rule works great. But, you need a good plan to survive a break up and avoid staying dumped.

How To Survive A Break Up And Not Get Dumped -Tip 3

The next key to surviving this break up is emotional control. You'll survive a break up if you keep in control. Most people who believed they have been dumped start to lose faith, and embrace low self-esteem. Avoid this "I've been dumped" trap by using self help materials from your library, and you'll survive this breakup, and you won't stay dumped.

How To Survive A Break Up And Not Get Dumped -Tip 4

Now that you have avoided being dumped, and you are learning how to survive a breakup, let's move on. The worst mistake anyone can make is to start to second guess their strategy. Do not try to contact your ex. I do not care if they are dating, or what your friends tell you. Stay strong and you will survive this break up. The main key to surviving a break up, and getting dumped is to get help.

The Best Way To Survive A Break Up And Not Get Dumped

If you're emotionally unbalanced you need someone or something to keep you in balance...Right? I mean, do you really think by randomly getting advice from friends, family, and co-workers, that you're going to succeed? You need a plan, a plan that works. If you want to survive this break up you'll need help.

If you do not have a good plan I do, and it works. I'll be happy to help you, and to support you. Just contact me and start learning ?tid=ab48" " how to survive a break up . Do It Today! Learn from your mistakes before you make them, and you'll survive this break up.

Until next time,

S. Williams

~I know that “love hurts” but with my help you will get strong enough to kick love's ass~