If you are reading this right now you are probably in a pretty tough position and are looking at some options to get back a boyfriend . Fortunately there is good news, it is possible, and with the right information you can be on your way back into that relationship that you are missing.

I have been in my fair share of serious, casual, great and terrible relationships and I know that the good ones are worth working for. To get back a boyfriend you will have to work for it but it is in a way that is not logically evident.
The first thing that you want to do is to take time for yourself and assess everything that is happened over the last few days. I know that it is really hard at this point but you want to try to think about your relationship with your head and not your heart to see if you really should get back together or if the thought of not having someone is driving you back to his arms. If you have made up your mind that you do want to get your ex back then first thing is first.

If you can see the breakup coming..

If you can see the break up coming, fortunately you are in the best situation to get back a boyfriend. If you have the conversation and your boyfriend breaks up with you, be calm and tell him -Important!- That you AGREE with the breakup, that you have also been thinking about it and that you think it IS best that you part ways. Crazy and drastic I know! Here is what this statement does to your ex on a Psychological level. It makes him see that you are on the same level as him, that you are not needy and the independence of the act actually makes you more attractive in his eyes. Being in this position makes your next moves so much easier.

If you have already broken up..

I know it sounds drastic and difficult and it is but it is important. You have to stop texting, stop dialing and just cut off communication. If your ex calls by chance, tell him that you need time to think about things. You see, you want to actively create some space by your choice. Calling and expressing your feelings and asking to get back together, at this point, will make you seem needy and dependent. You want to avoid instilling these ideas in your ex, like my college roommates avoided the dishes, at all costs!

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