If you have just gone through a breakup, you must be depressed, confused and frustrated. I can understand this mainly because I have gone through few myself. So my bet is that right now either you want your ex back or you want to get back at your ex - Either ways, this article will help you do both. Once you start working on ways to get back at your ex, many a times, your ex gets drawn to you and wishes to patch up. That is the time when you decide if you want to be with that person or not.

1.Go out and party like crazy. I know you must be thinking this is terrible advice when you are feeling so miserable. Trust me you will feel much better once you start going out with friends and enjoying your life. Haven't you heard the famous saying - " No one is worth your tears and the one who is would never make you cry." So, go out and party and forget your ex for a while.

2.Let your lover call. Let your ex lover do the talking if he wishes to bridge the gap created due to the breakup. Do not run after lost love trying to make things as they were. The more you try to communicate and come closer, the farther your ex will try to be with you.

3.Make your ex realize why they loved you. Okay so this one is really simple to implement because all you need to do is be your own self. There is a reason why they loved you in the first place so being yourself will make them realize this.

4.Move on. This is tough to do but has to be done. You need to move on and forget the past. Don't be a cry baby and act needy. Be strong and trust me these are the best ways to get back at your ex - That too is a nice and clean way.

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