" My girlfriend is ignoring me and I'm worried we're going to break up." If you're a man who has been thinking this lately, you have reason to be concerned. Whenever a woman suddenly stops paying attention to the man in her life, there's a problem. You can easily feel when your relationship shifts from one of a place of love and devotion to one where your girlfriend just seems to be going through the motions. If you leave this issue alone the relationship is eventually going to die. She'll come to you and tell you that things are over and by then it will be much more difficult to remedy it. You need to act now and luckily there is some breakthrough advice that will help you regain her interest and actually make her love you more than she ever has before. When you start saying to yourself " my girlfriend is ignoring me " you need to determine what caused her to pull back in the first place. Have you two been struggling with an ongoing issue that has left her feeling neglected or misunderstood? Women are very sensitive and even though you may have thought the issue was behind the two of you, she may not see it quite the same way. Talk to her and ask her if there's anything bothering her. Think back to what it might be and if you can pinpoint it, work with her to reach a resolution. Sometimes this is all it takes to fix the problem. If that's not what's causing her to withdraw she may just be starting to take you for granted. This can happen once a relationship is established. If you suspect this is the problem there is some breakthrough advice that can completely change her attitude. Start pulling back yourself. Stop chasing after her trying to get her to pay more attention to her. Instead of calling her all the time attempting to get her to commit to seeing you, leave her alone for a few days. The moment you fall silent, she'll take notice. Often all it takes is to show her that you can play the very same game she is. The risk of losing you may be enough to make her realize just how much she really does adore you . |