You can save your relationship and get your ex back here is some advice to help you. When a relationship comes to an end, it may seem like there is nothing that you can do to get your ex back. Something has happened to them in the relationship, and for whatever the reason, they are no longer happy being together. This is very normal and it happens to everyone. We have all been dumped at some time or another. It is a natural part of life, but does not signify the end by any means. The relationship can be saved and you can do it.


1.) Ok, so your relationship ended under the usual circumstances, there is still a chance that your ex will most likely want you back in the future. Save your relationship now. Although you must do your best to take the right steps toward getting your ex back. This means that you are going to have to back off for now and let things cool down. When your ex says that they do not want to be with you any longer, accept it and back away for now. No begging, threatening, or manipulating is allowed. The reason why doing these things is not good is because they will more than likely cause your ex to become very upset with you as well as become 100% convinced that they never want to be with you again and you don't want that.


2.) This sounds ridiculous, but offer them your friendship instead. This is a important way to save your relationship. Let them know that you will be there for them if they need anything from you as a friend. This opens the door to possibly becoming more in time, just not right now. When a relationship comes to an end, it needs time to redevelop. Understand that you will not be as close as you once were when you were together. Letting your ex know that you still want to be friends will give them a chance to still think about you and that is always a good thing. Ending a relationship on bad terms hardly ever ends up the way you want it to.


3.) Know that it is not going to be easy, but just move along with your life and work on some things you have been meaning to get done. The less attention you give your ex, the better off your chances of getting them back will be. People can usually sense when their ex's are thinking about them, so do your best to get your mind off of them. If they call you, try your best to sound calm, relaxed, and nonchalant. Let them know in a nice and subtle way that your world no longer revolves around them by telling them about what a great night you had with your friends and how you have plans to go out with some friends this weekend. But do so in a nice way as to not give off the tone that you are trying to make them jealous. People can pick up on that easily as well, and it is not very appealing. It is actually very obvious and will only push them away even further and that can delay you from getting back together.


4.) Always be positive. If you have some weight to lose, a better job to obtain, a new car to save up for, etc., then now is the time to do so. Remember that your ex has an open door in your life by means of friendship that will allow them to see you from afar. The more interesting you appear to be, the more easily you will spark their interest once again. Your relationship will be reestablished within no time at all. Just be patient and do not attempt to push anything to hard.

5.) Save your relationship with some effort on your part. All of this may seem complicated, but it is really just the process of letting go and then allowing things to restart again. If you try to push the relationship by constant texting, calling, emailing, etc. you may end up throwing it off course. The best thing to do is work on yourself, enjoy life, and leave the ball in their court. They will come back to you.