When your boyfriend tells you he wants a timeout from the relationship, you might think you should argue with him and make him see his mistake. You might think that you should cry and tell him you love him and cannot live without him. These tactics will only make him more positive that he is doing the right thing by breaking up with you. The main reason women make so many mistakes at the time of a split is the difference in men and women. Woman respond to words and men respond to actions. Getting a second chance with your ex boyfriend can be as easy as using these surprising tips to get your ex back.

Trying to reason with him at this time will only lead to rejection. Your ex will feel that you are not respecting his wishes and that will lead to him resenting you. Instead of fighting his decision to break things off, a better course to take is to agree with him. This might not seem like a good idea to you right now because you think that he will feel the relationship is ended. But it will do just the opposite. Even though he is breaking up with you, he wants to feel that you will always take him back. By agreeing with him you are taking him by surprise. He had no idea that you felt that way and he will feel that you are rejecting him .

Your next step is to get him out the door before you weaken and start crying. You have shook him up and you do not want to ruin it now. He will be shaking his head in confusion because he will not be able to believe what the way you just acted. He will also be surprised to realize that he never desired you as much as he does right now. Your ex boyfriend will feel that somehow he has lost you for good and a deep sadness will come over him. The more he thinks of what happened, the more he will want you back. This will confuse him even more because he was all set to see you chasing and begging him to come back. Now, he wants to come back, but he does not think you will have him.

Go on with your life as if he does not exist and let him have time to sort things out. It will not be long before he will be the one contacting you for a second chance. Do not rush right back into his arms. Take things slow and make him work to get you back. You want to let him see that you are not someone that he can have whenever he pleases. Getting a second chance with your ex boyfriend can be easy if you make him feel he needs you more than you need him.