At the present time, you are probably feeling pretty low in spirit, if your boyfriend broke up with you and you want him back . Your whole life seems to have fallen apart and all of the dreams of a future with him are gone. Your head tells you that it is best to let him go and move on with your life, but your heart will not let you. In this case, your heart is right, you do not have to lose the love of your life forever. These effective tips will bring him back fast.

To get your ex back you only have to seem to be letting him go, but you must be convincing. He has to believe that you have accepted the breakup and you are moving on. By doing this you are sending him a message that you can have a life without him. If you had continued to try to get him back, he would know that he could take his time and do some dating and if things did not work out, you would be waiting. By not chasing him and begging him to come back, you have changed things around completely. Now he sees that he could lose you and this is not what he expected to happen.

Another mistake women make after a breakup, is trying to have friends or relatives talk to their ex boyfriend and tell him how much she loves him. This will cause him to feel that you are needy and desperate and he will resent you airing private matters with others. This is not the way to use friends and relatives to get your ex back. The best way to use them is to appear happy and tell them of all of the good things that have been happening to you. Do not mention the breakup or your ex. Just give the impression that you have forgotten all about him and you are enjoying your life. Word will get back to him of how well you look and how happy you seem and he will feel he made a bad mistake by breaking up with you.

Next, you should go to a good salon and get a makeover. New hair style, manicure and a tan. Then go shopping for new clothes to accent your new look. When you are looking desirable again, get with friends and go out on the town. Have fun and be sure to stop by the places your ex hangs out and let him get a good look at the woman he let get away. This will drive him crazy for you again and bring him back fast.