When your relationship has ended, but you are still in love with your ex and want him back, you are certain to be in an emotional turmoil. You cannot sleep, or eat and nothing seems worthwhile. In this sort of condition, you will need to be very aware of your actions. You cannot make him love you again by telling him you cannot live without him. This will only show you to be needy and desperate and he will pull farther away from you. Calling him at all hours of the day and night, emailing and sending text messages incessantly will further hamper any chance of getting your ex back. If you have been doing any of these things you have to stop immediately and use these effective tips for getting your ex back after a breakup.

Your best approach, is to have no contact with your ex at all for a few weeks. I know this will sound strange to you, since you are afraid to leave him alone and let someone else have him. This is where woman make a mistake. Your ex will not be out hunting another woman so soon after the breakup. He is still angry and as confused as you are. All he wants is some time and space to sort things out, and by having no contact with him, you are giving him that time and space. You will also be showing him that you are putting his desires above your own and he will respect you for doing it.

An even better idea would be to drop out of sight entirely. Take a vacation with some friends or visit out of town relatives. You need the support of people that care about you right now. By disappearing for a while and getting your emotions in check, you will be in a much better shape to deal with the breakup when you come back. You will also make your ex wonder what has happened to you and why you stopped trying to get him back. Now, you have his attention in a positive way again .

When you have not had any contact with your ex boyfriend for a few weeks, it will be time to show him how well you can get along with out him. Go out with friends and be seen having a good time. When your ex hears of this, he will remember the good times you had together. Since you have given him time to feel the void in his life that being without you has caused, he will realize he still loves you. When this happens, he will be contacting you and your ex boyfriend will be the one wanting you back.