If you have just been dumped by somebody, then you are probably looking for break up tips. Well here is the best one I can give you: ACCEPT THE BREAK UP. Don't necessarily think of this as bad thing.

Break Ups Often Lead To Better Relationships

Nothing is permanent. There is no rule that says once somebody breaks up with you, it's all over. There is no chance of getting back together. That's rubbish!! In fact I'll bet you that some of the best couples you know, went through a break up. It happens. It's just human nature.

What it does is allow BOTH sides the time and space to further analyze the relationship. A lot of times, people just take each other for granted. For example, how many break ups happen because one person doesn't feel appreciated? It's normal for this to happen, and believe it or not, a break up is one of the BEST ways for people to be aware of that. I know it doesn't feel that way right now, but it's true.

The Mistake Most People Make

The problem is that people don't see this. When they are in the middle of the break up, it is almost impossible that they see this as a good thing, and the potential of how it can make their relationship even stronger.

Instead most fall into negative feelings, such as depression, anger, denial, and worse cases, many people turn into stalkers. Think about how little chance you have with your ex, if you fall into any of these stages?