If you are going through a break up of your relationship you are probably having a lot of different emotions. Your days may be filled with tears, sadness, and little of depression. You don't want to continue this way. You know you still love him and you are determined onwinning him back.

Winning him backmay be easier then you think as long as you have a proven strategy or plan. Shortly after a break up is a very emotional time for a woman, and you may make some mistakes that will hurt your chances of winning him back.

That is why you need a plan, a plan that works like a "magic love recipe" .I will discuss such a plan later, a plan that will help through this rough time in your life and show you the strategies to win a man back.

First, let's discuss some of the mistakes a woman usually makes to get him come back after a break up.

1. Don't Tell Him "I love you, I love you, please take me back!"

This may be your first reaction, trying to make things "right". Pleading or down right "begging" him to take you back is one of the most often made mistakes.

Why is this a mistake? Well, for one thing this is an act of desperation. Desperation will only push him farther away and will never get him come back to you. You do not want to seem "needy to him because it is a turn-off to most men.

2. Apologizing For The Break Up.

You may have made mistakes that lead to the break up. He may have been at fault also. It is OK to admit and apologize for your mistakes but not over and over again. You do want to determine the reasons for the break up and then work on correcting them. It is works better than keep repeating how sorry you are for the break up.

3. Blaming Him For The Break Up.

Yes, he may be the one that caused the break up, but placing blame on him is not the way of winning him back. Your goal is to get him to come back, not to get some satisfaction from constantly blaming him.

Why would you want to make him feel guilty and why would he want to around you? At this point it doesn't matter how the break up happened. I know it may be a hard pill to swallow because if it was his fault then you may be feeling anger and hurt.

4. No Plan For Winning Him Back.

You just know you want him back but you have no idea how to win a man back, in other words you have no plan. This is like traveling across a foreign country without a road map. There is a proven plan that works like a"Magic Love Recipe"that will guide you through this process.

What are you chances of winning him back? They are great if you avoid the above mistakes and get a proven plan on winning him back .