Hey man, sorry to know that things haven't quite worked out for you and your honey and you are seeking a little help to get your girlfriend back. I'm sure she meant the world to you and life kind of sucks without her.

Well, I'm going to share 7 things you should probably avoid doing as you work on getting your girlfriend back.

1. Don't try to get your girlfriend back by acting like you are about to drive off a cliff because she left you. It's easy to let depression set in because of your breakup but you shouldn't try to use pity as a way for you guys to get back together. Sure, she may feel sorry for you but it will end there. Besides, you don't want to get her back just because she feels sorry for you.
2. Avoid trying to shower your ex girlfriend with love to get her back. Telling her over and over and over again how much you adore, love and miss her is not the best tactic to use to help to get your girlfriend back. She might feel good initially that you still are head over heals in love with her but this can easily become annoying and hurt your chances for your girlfriend to want to get back with you.
3. Try not to make promises to her about how you are now ready, able and willing to change, to get your girlfriend back. If it were so simple you would have changed already. So, instead of risking looking like a liar, avoid making empty promises.
4. You shouldn't impulse buy for her, in an attempt, to get your girlfriend back. Diamonds are a girl's best friend, but now is not the time to get those stud earrings you were thinking of buying for her. Not only could this be a waste of your money but she might even reject your shallow attempt to buy back her love.
5. Resist using guilt and shame to get her back. I know this one is hard to avoid because you think if you tap into her emotions i.e., her heart you might have a better chance to get her back. Don't go there! You want her to want to rekindle your relationship and not because she feels guilty.
6. At all costs don't try to argue, fight or scare her back into your life. Just because you speak or yell at her in a loud voice doesn't mean she takes this actions as love. You may think it's passion but she may look at it as stupidity. You have a better chance of getting her back with kindness and being humble.
7. The last but most important thing you need to avoid to help get your girlfriend back is doing nothing. That's right, doing nothing. Although you are probably a cool guy who lots of girls would adore, you can't sit back and hope or wish your girlfriend comes back.

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