“Will he regret breaking up with me ?” That’s one of those common questions women ask one another after being dumped. Nothing stings quite like the rejection you feel when the man you love tells you he doesn’t want to be with you anymore. Try as you might, moving on without him may feel impossible. Although everyone and your own common sense is telling you to forget about him, you don’t have to travel down that path. If you want to make him regret dumping you and you want to hear him telling you that he can’t live without you, there are ways to make that happen.

The most important thing to remember if you want to make him regret breaking up with you is to focus on yourself after the split. Your thoughts are naturally going to be consumed by him and what went wrong but if you spend all your time wishing things were different, you’re missing an important opportunity. Your boyfriend loved you once and you know, better than anyone, what qualities in you he found irresistible. You need to concentrate on bringing those qualities back to the surface now. Spend the first few days and weeks after the break up improving who you are. Your goal with this is to transform yourself into someone that he’ll find completely irresistible.

You’ve also got to show him that you’re fine without him. One thing that drives men wild is a woman who is hard to get. If you continue to contact your ex boyfriend after the break up, he’s going to see you as being someone who is too accessible or to attainable. This is the exact reason why many men end relationships. They simply don’t feel the thrill of the chase anymore so they decide to move on to someone else. Don’t chase your ex after he dumps you. Put on a brave face and tell him that you were considering ending things too. Then don’t talk to him. You may think this will result in him moving on without you, but it actually won’t. Suddenly he’ll feel the pain of rejection and he’ll be the one who wants you back. Stay strong and focus on not begging him to take you back. That will ensure he does indeed come back to you.