Two major parts of all lasting relationships are compromise and sacrafice. If the phrase "how to get back with my ex boyfriend" keeps popping into your mind, please keep the words above in mind. Fixing your broken relationship isn't going to be simple, but reading this lesson will make it so much easier and give him an excellent reason to want to come back to you.

I know, I know, "how to get back with my ex boyfriend" is the major focus on your mind right now but, you should really focus why your relationship failed in the first place. If you do this, it will eliminate the stress and tension which caused the break up to happen.

Now, onto the question of the day,How can I get back together with my ex boyfriend?

You're relationship failed, something really got out of whack. If your boyfriend broke up with you, then it probably happened for 1 of 2 reasons: You guys broke up because there wasn't enough of you in it and his desire fizzled, or you broke up because there was too much of you in it and he was smothered. Both of these reasons will kill any relationship. Figure out which one of these reasons was a major cause of your break up. Yeah for some of you, you may think it was a single event, but I guarantee you one of these reasons was bubbling below the surface.

I know that its probably tough to look at the situation in this way, but this is usually how all break ups go. The one that was broken up with either did, or didn't do something and the one doing the breaking up just felt driven away.

You need to sit down and really take a long, hard look at your old relationship. What could have possibly led to the breakup? Which of these things were really your fault, and which were not your fault?

Forget about the issues that were out of your control, since they are still not in your control, and worry about the issues that you created, because these are the issues that you can immediately fix. I'm not a genie so I can't tell you what they are but if the biggest problem is something that you were responsible for and you can fix, then that little "how to get back my ex boyfriend" thought in your head will be very easy to accomplish. Just be positive you'll make the necessary changes that need to be done to get him back.

Just knowing the answer to "how to get back with my ex boyfriend" is not enough. It won't happen unless you are willing to take action. Now!