Getting back a girlfriend is definitely something that most guys will assume is hard to do. And if you ask the advice and opinions of most people, they will just tell you to move on, because they have no idea on how to attract back an ex girlfriend. That does not mean that it cannot be done, because it very well can. You have to know how to make her want you again.

Here are some tips on how to attract her back and make her feel like she wants you again:

1. You need to make sure that you are not obsessing over her.Obsession is never a good thing, and it is far from an attractive quality for a man to obsess over an ex girlfriend. Besides that, it just does not really feel good to become that stuck on anyone, even if you think that she might be the love of your life. If you are going to get anywhere near getting her back, then you MUST be sure that you are not on the brink of obsession.

2. You need to silence that inner critic that says that you cannot get her back.Men can be pretty tough on themselves when it comes to females and even more so when the female happens to be an ex girlfriend. Shut that voice inside of you up, and make sure that you do not talk yourself out of trying to get her back. If you really want to make it happen, you cannot be telling yourself that it will not.

3. You need to get out there and have some fun.Even while you are working on getting her back, you need to keep the fun in your life. This will actually make you more appealing to your ex girlfriend, because women are just naturally attracted to men that seem to be living a good life. Having fun is important because there are going to be some days where you are unsure of whether or not you really will get her back.

4. You need to use the power of her own female psychology to make her feel powerful attraction.Yes, you can get inside the head of a woman and understand what will trigger her attraction and make her want to get back with you. And no, you don't have to be some kind of a geek to comprehend female psychology when it comes to attraction.