How to win back the love of your ex boyfriend is a difficult subject to understand. Too many people go about this the wrong way, does not matter is you are a girl or guy. People can just rush into it without thinking of the consequences and make the situation worse. If you really want to win your ex back follow advice that has proven to work for many others.

At first you need to take things slow and easy. The last thing you want to do is chase after your ex trying to convince them of the benefits of coming back to you. All you are doing by this is making yourself look desperate and forceful. You need to calm down and back off from your ex so they have some room to breath.

If you are forcing yourself on them they will never want to make up with you and try to work it out. Playing it cool will make you look like you are doing great on your own and are not stressing out about the break up. Your ex may be curious as to why you are doing ok and not pursuing them, they may have expected you to keep calling and doing what you can to get them back, but you are not.

Giving your ex this freedom will allow them to make a realization they may still want you, without your trying to convince them. When your ex comes to this conclusion on their own it will have more meaning. It may seem like you are tricking your ex to win them back like this but you need to make it work. Getting your ex back can be difficult to do, but if you are willing to put in the effort you will succeed if it was meant to be.