You are now well on the way to getting back with your ex because the first date went well and now you are starting to get involved. You may want to find out a few techniques to get closer. This article will set out a few things you can do to ease back into the relationship with your ex.

You had great fun on the second date and you were able to bond again. That was mainly due to some nice shared experiences you had and that is the essential element in being able to bond. Bonding happens unconsciously through shared experiences. The great seducers of all time were well aware of this strategy and used it to great effect.

Starting a sex relationship again. If you are a man, you need to make up a reason to take your ex back to your place. Sex is the most powerful type of bonding for a woman. 'Hey, let's go back to my place' wink, wink is no use. That does NOT work because a woman needs 'plausible deniability' so you will have to think of a much more effective line. There are some great ideas in the link below. There is a possibility that she may just refuse and that can be handled by giving her more time. At this point you may have to go back a few steps.

Even if you don't end up in the bedroom, you have come a long way - remember not so long ago, you were fuming and swearing and desperate too ! So play it cool as you can try another time. It is important though when you decide to call it a day that you tell her you had a really great time.

If you are a woman. You do not want to sleep with your ex unless you get some sort of commitment from him. There are quite a few psychological advantages in deciding not to sleep with him just yet. You can add to the suspense and occupy his thoughts in a tantalising way.

But there will come a point when he wants to know why you do not want to go further and you are tempted to say that you need the 'commitment' or some sign to establish that there has been a reconciliation. But if you say you want a commitment, then you are going to sound as if you are manipulative and that is probably the last thing you want and so does he.

To find out just what to say, you will need to click on the link below which tells you exactly what to do at this very important point in getting back with your ex.

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