Nobody is just going to hand you a notebook filled with rock solid tips to win back your girlfriend. No, you are expected to do this all on your own. And with your mind constantly turning to thoughts about her, it becomes almost impossible to make a clear headed decision and figure out what you need to do to get her back.

You have a choice that you can make right now.

You can decide to do what most will do and just pray that she somehow finds her way back into your life. OR, you can decide that you are going to stand up, and finally unravel the mystery of how to get your girlfriend back.

Just in case you are not the type to give up, here are some tips to win back your girlfriend that you need right now:

1. To get your girlfriend back, you need to know what it is that drove her away.In most situations, the real culprit is that somewhere the sparks died out. You can bring back the sparks into any relationship and you can overcome most situations that led to a breakup. The exception is if there was abuse or excessive cheating going on.

2. To win her back, you need to be confident that it is going to happen.Think of it like this. A champion athlete cannot put a ball into a basket if he thinks he is not good enough. Well, if you think that you are not good enough to get back your girlfriend, then you are not going to be able to pull her back to you.

3. Your ex girlfriend needs to feel like she might lose YOU for good.You might be thinking, well, if she is the one that broke up with me, why should I make her feel like she will lose me? Well, sometimes a woman does not really realize what she wants until it seems like it might be GONE. Don't let her get away.