Whether it was your fault or not, there are things that you need to do in order to win your boyfriend back. There are certain unsaid rules that you need to follow if you plan on having any sort of chance to get the love of your life back in your arms. In my own personal experience and experiences of many others I have found three things or tips rather to help win your ex boyfriend back as quickly as possible.
Respect his decision and the separation.
When you are unreasonable and irrational saying things like "you can't break up with me" or "I won't let you break up with me," it just looks sad and makes the decision to leave even easier. Men do not want to see their woman begging, pleading and crying over a break up. The first thing that you need to do is remain strong and accept the decision and move forward. This means letting him know you respect his decision and will abide by it. Once he sees that you are being mature about it, it will put you in a better position later.
Become the woman he always wanted you to be.
No one is perfect and I am sure you are no different. There is always room for improvement and there are probably things about you that could make you a better person. This could have even been the reason that you broke up. If for instance your ex wanted you to quit drinking alcohol or smoking because he was concerned about your health and you ignored him, then this is the perfect time to quit. Once he sees the positive moves in your life he will start to see that you can be the woman he always wanted.
Take the higher road.
No matter what happens, if you see him with another girl or if his friends tell you he is dating, don't turn the jealousy switch on. Take the high road and wish him the best. This will show him you are okay with everything, which is really not what an ex wants to see. They want to see that it is eating you up inside. Believe me, if he sees that you are not jealous it will make him question himself, your relationship with him and will have him coming back to you sooner.
The help you need is the "Magic of Making Up", an excellent e-book by T. Dub Jackson.
In the in The magic of making you will find some very simple ways and methods that will show you how to get your guy back. They are plain suggestions and real down to earth methods although some what unconventional to help you to get your guy back in days - not months or years. The get guy back formula is for women having an intense urge to find out ways and means to make up for their loss. They are no way black magic but works like magic to get your guy back.
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