When a woman is dumped by the man she still loves, she is apt to panic and start chasing him. She will cry, beg and lose her pride and dignity. When he refuses to talk to her, she will go on a marathon of phone calls, emails and text messages. If this sounds like what you have been doing, you need to stop it right now. These sort of tactics will only push him farther away from you and make him glad he dumped you. To get your ex back you will have to make him sorry he dumped you.

Starting now, you need to change the way he thinks of you by showing him that you can handle the breakup just fine. Begin by stopping all contact with him and show him you do not care. This will take a lot of strength and maturity, but if you keep in mind that it is getting him back, you can do it. Put as much distance between the two of you as possible and occupy yourself with other people and interests. Get aquatinted with your family again and let their support and love help you regain your self confidence. Go out with you friends and have a good time.

When he sees that you are not going to try to get him back, your ex boyfriend will be confused and have second thoughts about dumping you. This will not be what he expected you to be doing at all. It will not be long before he notices a huge void in his life and he will start to miss you . His next thought will be that you might find someone else and he will lose you for good. This should make him go into action and he will start looking for you. You will want to fall right back into his arms, but you have to resist the temptation.

Making it too easy to get you back, will make him feel that he can dump you whenever he wants to and you will always be ready to take him back. You have to settle this once and for all and let him know he does not own you. Make him work to get you back, just as he had to work to get you in the first place. Do not keep him chasing you until he gets discouraged, but you have to let him know that he is no longer your top priority. You can occasionally have something else to do when he wants to see you. Just keep him uncertain of you and he will fall crazy in love with you again .