It is easy to procrastinate, put off, wait till tomorrow and just not want to deal with things especially when it comes to ex problems. If you have an ex, a really good person, don't be foolish and put them on the back burner because you are trying to prove something, you better get your ex back.

The reason is there are so many sad stories because you may have waited to long to fix the problems, and your ex moved on.

No matter how much two people love each other, life is short and your ex will choose to move on.

There was a friend who had a wonderful marriage, a loving wife, seemed to have it all. Then he got hooked on rebuilding cars, well you know cars can have a emotional attachment just like humans. Numerous hints from his wife feel on deaf ears and after a few years, as much as she loved him, she had to leave him.

This was more a cry for attention than actually hating him, a bigger way to get her message across. It worked, he soon realized what he had done. The tragedy was he dragged his foolish feet, she had a fatal car accident. He lost the chance to get her back, he never got to say he was sorry, he never had the chance to say how much she meant to him, life dealt the wild card and he lost.

Emotions run high in breakups and it is easy to point finger, blame, hate, and be hurt. When the smoke clears ask yourself, do I have good memories, are they a good person, did we let small things become big? I bet you will answer yes. Don't delay, go get your ex back.

Keep in mind the story, life has no guarantees. The world is full of junk that wants to break you up, get in the way of your happiness, and worst of all take the one good thing in your life and drive a wedge in it. Go get you ex back!

Get good advice, listen to your ex, as long as you both are willing nothing can stand in your way to reconcile.

Fix, repair, get outside help, do whatever needs to be done, get back on track to a life you both can enjoy together and forever.

So, If you have an ex.

If you blew it (or if they blew it).

If you don't want life to play it's Wild card against you.

Get advice, learn how to get your ex back.