When your boyfriend needs a break , but you are still in love with him, it will cause you confusion and heart break. You want to know what you did to offend him, but if you ask him he will just say he needs some time to himself. After he is gone, if you follow your instincts you will keep calling him and sending emails until he wishes he had never met you. But on the other hand, if you do nothing, you will be giving up the only man you feel you can ever love without a fight. So what are you to do? The answer is to not do either of the above, but instead do what he least expects and he will be the one that is feeling rejected.

It will not be easy, but it is the best way to get your ex back in a hurry. When your boyfriend tells you he needs a break, put a smile on your face and tell him you agree. If you can manage it, say that you have been thinking the same thing for some time. Then get him out the door before you start crying. It is of utmost importance that you do not let him see you cry. After he is gone you can go into your bedroom and kick, scream and cry until you get it all out. Then go take a good soaking bath and be sure that you have already started to get him back .

The reason this tactic is so effective is that he was expecting you to cry and beg in an effort to make him change his mind. Instead he is the one that is feeling rejected and already having second thoughts about the breakup. He will also be impressed with your strength and maturity. Your ex boyfriend will be shaking his head in confusion and already begin to miss you. The next thought to enter his mind is that you have someone waiting to take his place and this was all planned to get rid of him.

To add to his confusion and uncertainty, get with some friends and go out for a good time. Hearing of this your ex will remember the good times you had together and wonder why he could have been so foolish. This will make him want you back and he will start chasing you again . Now, all you need to do is not be easy. Remember how you got him the first time and use the same tactics now. When you get back together, he will not need another break for a long time, if ever.