So your relationship has made a turn for the worse and you're not even sure what really happened. Women don't always tell you exactly what they're thinking in a relationship, but they do expect you to "just know". Even if you do know what went wrong, how can you make it up to her if she won't even give you a chance? Here's asecret tactic that will make your ex girlfriend want you backand give you a second chance.

This secret is all about flipping the situation on its head and shocking your ex girlfriend into confusion. What do I mean?

See,your ex girlfriendcould pretty well predict what was going to happen once she broke up with you. If she couldn't predict it, or in other words, she wasn't SURE what was going to happen when she broke up with you, that would severely prevent her from doing so. It's human nature to want to be certain of an outcome when we do a particular action.

In this case, your ex girlfriend expected you to not treat this break up too lightly. What is great about this is, once you know that, you can use it to your advantage by NOT doing what she expects.

What's something she definitely won't expect? For you to "reject her" instead. Breaking up is really about being rejected and getting your ego bruised. She knows that she's "safe" from the rejection because she is rejecting you. But fortunately for you, you now know that it is not true.

Now in rejecting her, I don't mean you go over there and say instead that you're dumping her instead of the other way around. You're going to do this in a sly way, because doing it this way is another contrast to what she EXPECTS from you.

Because emotions can be so high after a break up, usually the one getting dumped ends up acting desperate in the hope to get their ex back. It's in a way, overcompensating for what went wrong during the relationship. You're not going to do that. Instead, you're going to act cool and reject her through your actions, rather than what you're going to "say" to her.

Implementing no contact, refusing to be friends and just flat out acting indifferent are examples of how you can reject her. Now, she'll be hurt by this, and from this hurt, she might start doing things like taking down pictures of you together, flirting openly with other guys or acting extremely cold.

Be PREPARED for this! She's testing you to see if you'll crack. Don't fall for it because these are signs she's about to "crack" herself.

Keep consistent and use this time to refocus on other areas of your life. Keep busy and have fun with other people. She'll be in the back of your head and some days will be harder than others, but eventually it DOES get easier.

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