“ I want my ex back but he has a new girlfriend .” Any woman saying this may be thinking that she’s lost the man she loves for good. Whenever your ex starts seeing someone new you’ll have visions of him falling madly in love, proposing to her and becoming her husband in record time. The chances of his next relationship lasting aren’t all that good. Rebound relationships generally crash and burn before long and if you’re waiting for that to happen, there are a few things you need to be doing in the meantime.

You can get your ex boyfriend back if he has a new girlfriend if you establish a friendship with him. This is going to seem like a step in the wrong direction if you’re still in love with him, but it’s not. When a relationship ends and you still desperately love your ex, you’re going to immediately begin to think of ways to gain back the romantic relationship you two shared. Doing that, especially when they’ve already started dating someone new, can be near impossible. However, it’s not difficult at all to establish a friendship. Tell your boyfriend that you’d love it if you two could remain friends. Do this when you’re feeling very calm and centered. You don’t want to cry or plead with him to be your friend. Just mention it to him. Chances are very good that he’ll be receptive.

Another thing you absolutely must do if you want to get him back is be kind and welcoming to her. This isn’t easy but it’s essential to your master plan to win him back. If you show him, through your actions, that you’re not jealous and that you want the best for him, he’ll become more open to you. You can do this by being friendly to her. This doesn’t mean you should go out of your way to spend time with her and you certainly don’t want to bond with her as best friends, but be cordial to her. When you talk with him, ask about her. Over time he’ll begin to see you as a confidante and he’ll start sharing his thoughts and feelings about her. Be supportive without choosing sides and when their relationship starts to unravel, you’ll be right there waiting to pick up the pieces of his broken heart. This will instantly bond you two again.