After a breakup, there are always regrets about what you should or should not have done differently. But the main regret is that the man you love is gone and you have no idea of how to get him back. One thing you must avoid is trying to force your love down his throat. He will only reject you and refuse to have anything to do with you. The trick is to make him want to come back to you.

In order to get your ex back, he has to desire you again. Think back to when you first met him and the way you were then. There was something about you that attracted him to you in the first place. Think of things he used to compliment you on. The way you laughed or your wit. Whatever made him desire you then will make him want you again. He might be frustrated because you are not the same woman he fell in love with. If you show him that you are still that woman, he will not be able to resist you.

Do not try to take short cuts in an effort to get him back fast, it will only make matters worse. These things take time because you both have a lot of work to do. You need to get your nerves settled down and start working on becoming the woman he fell in love with again. Your ex boyfriend needs time to get over his anger and see what his life is like without you and begin to miss you. The main thing you must do is stay away from him and have no contact at all with your ex for a few weeks. He cannot miss you if you are always around, so put as much distance between you as possible.

One of the shortcuts you might be tempted to take is, making your ex boyfriend jealous by dating other men. This could be a big mistake because your ex might get the idea that you feel the relationship is over and you are moving on. He might retaliate by dating other women and you will lose him for good. A much better way to make him want you back in his arms after a breakup, is to show him why he fell in love with you to begin with.

Get dressed in his favorite outfit and wear your hair the way he always liked it, you might even wear his favorite scent. Then get some friends together and go out and have some fun. Be sure to stop by his hangouts, so he gets a good look at you. Do not engage in conversation with him. Just give him a chance to see the woman he fell in love with and then leave. This will make him feel that you are just out of his reach and he will desire you again .