Have you received a Facebook invitation from your ex girlfriend? Why does she want to stay friends with you when you've split up?

Stop, breath, deeply, take stock, step back. Wait.

Just so you know. Many guys are getting Facebook invitation. They and other social invites are causing many guys to feel jealousy, anger, hurt amongst many other negative emotions.

Why?

It means:

1. On some level she still has feelings for you.

2. Part of her wants you back. That doesn't mean today or soon, but a part of her does.

3. She's hurting too and can't let you go. She is afraid of losing you.

4. She's jealous and is making sure you don't go out with anybody better than her.

5. She wants to show you that she can still have a great life without you.

The truth is, being on Facebook with your ex girlfriend means NOTHING. What see, hear and read on Facebook means nothing unless you attach meaning to what she is posting.

All forms of communication i.e. talking, reading,emails,texts, letters.  They all mean nothing more than what has been written or said. They only mean something when you add your own emotions to the communication. 2 people can be at the same event or read the same letter and two very different ideas about what it all means.

How can you overcome this negative emotional attachment?

The more you deny what you are feeling, the more you are pushing your girlfriend away from you.

The BIG 2 emotional shifters which can help you are:

1. The Law of Attraction. When you use ALL the steps of The Law of Attraction and use the consistently. You can easily get your ex girlfriend back. It happens all the time.

2. Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). This very simple and transformational technique can change how you feel about yourself and your girlfriend.  Any negative emotions you feel towards your girlfriend, is actually pushing her further away from you. These emotions can easliy be resolved and dissolved using EFT.

Warning: Getting your girlfriend back has more to do with your own emotions and actions that what she is or is not thinking on Facebook.

It is much easier if you let go of your jealousy and other negative emotions if you want to get your girlfriend back.