When you breakup with the man that you are mad about, it seems your whole world has fallen apart. The confusion and desperation can be overwhelming. All of your dreams of a happy relationship with your man seem destined to become just a memory. It's the feeling that you have lost your ex boyfriend forever that creeps into your mind and nothing seems worthwhile. You try to pull yourself together and move on, but it's so hard to do when you are still in love with him. But, don't give up, there are ways to pull him back and make him stay.

The best thing you can do at this time to get your ex boyfriend back is to give him his space. Your first natural instinct is to try to pull your ex boyfriend back by telling him how much you love him and need him. The worst thing you can do is to go running after him crying and pleading for another chance. These tactics will only serve to make you appear overly emotional and needy, and he will be heading for the nearest hole he can find to hide from you. Another result of your chasing him will be for him to withdraw and not talk to you at all. So your best tactic here is to have no contact with him whatsoever.

By giving your ex boyfriend the space and time he needs to think and get over his anger, he will come to realize how much he misses you and start to feel a sense of loss. This will be impossible for him to do if you are constantly harassing him and keeping him frustrated and angry with you. Meanwhile during this period of giving your ex boyfriend his space, you can start taking a long look at yourself and see what you can do to improve the way you are. Fix yourself up with some new clothes and spoil yourself at the beauty salon by getting the works. If you need to lose some weight, work on that too.

When you see him again, he will wonder why he ever let you go, and he will realize that he is still in love with you. Giving him the time he needs to settle down and taking that time to improve yourself is absolutely one of the best tactics you can use to pull him back and make him stay.