If your ex boyfriend broke up with you and you still love him, you're stuck in a pretty difficult position. Trying to get over someone you adore isn't easy and for most of us, our minds always drift back to the same thought and that's how can I get him back. You don't have to give up and let him slip out of your life forever. You can win him back if you approach the situation from a place of logic and not emotion.

As women we're accustomed to letting our emotions help guide us through situations. When we want to communicate, we ask the man in our lives to talk. If we're feeling sad, we just let the tears flow. However, if your ex boyfriend broke up with you and your goal is to get him back, you have to override all those emotions and take control of your actions. You have to take a step back and think about what you are doing and saying before you do it. This is incredibly important each and every time you have any contact with your ex.

You must never let your ex see or hear you crying over the break up. As much as you may think that you'll gain his sympathy by sharing your raw emotions with him, you won't. If your ex boyfriend broke up with you recently and you call him crying, he's going to be uncomfortable. He'll likely make up an excuse for why he needs to end the conversation and you won't hear from him again. On the other hand if you are calm, cool and collected when you talk to him, he's going to respect you that much more.

An important thing to remember in relation to how you communicate with him is when you communicate with him. As hard as it might seem, try and avoid him as much as possible right after the split. Since your ex boyfriend broke up with you, you need to be the one controlling the situation and any interaction between you two. Don't contact him for at least a few weeks after the separation and don't return his calls. Use this time to strengthen yourself so that when you two do speak you can stay in control of what you say and do. By giving him an opportunity to miss you, you'll stand a much better chance of winning back his love .