When someone walks away, there is an unequal balance of power. You feel like the person who's lost and it seems as if your boyfriend has all of the power. But think again. If you understand the dynamics of human nature, you will realize that you've got so much power in this situation - much more than you think.

Right now, your vision is clouded by your feelings. You feel devastated, you feel hopeless, you feel worthless, you feel desperate. This is because the law of human nature is working in you. You are experiencing separation anxiety and you are panicking.

Trying to hold on to your ex-boyfriend seems like the best solution and you FEAR that if you do not continue to beg, plead, call him, or try to get him back, that you will lose him forever. This is all based from your fear of loss.

Now let me tell you how you can regain your value in your ex boyfriend's eyes and make him want you back.

Remember that we walk away from things that has little value to us. We're more willing to spend time obsessing over the things we think are valuable. Don't allow your ex boyfriend to continue to walk away from you because you are devaluing yourself in his eyes.

This is important so please listen carefully. You will lose MORE if you try to grab and hold on. You have to create the illusion that you are letting go so that his mind can bomerang back to you.

When you make him think that you are letting go and you follow a certain technique, it will create a vacuum inside him that will get him to rethink his decision to leave you.