Have you broken up or been dumped recently? Either way, you are here because you want to learn how to win back your ex girlfriend and I'm here to tell you why you should write a letter in order to achieve that.

There are couple of reasons why people in your situation opt to write a letter rather than speak their mind in person. One would be when the ex girlfriend is not available or does not make herself available to you. Two would be when you do not have the courage to tell her you are still madly in love with her.

Whatever the reason you are writing a letter to your ex girlfriend, you should understand the pros and cons to writing a letter.

A letter communicates only one way, you speak your mind but the recipient has no way to respond to your thoughts. The pro is that you can say what you want to say without any interruption. The con is that there is no way of gauging how well you are reaching out to the reader.

When you write a letter to your ex girlfriend, be honest about your feelings and don't be afraid to express them. Don't try to be too polite or politically correct, because this letter could be the last time your ex girlfriend reads with an open mind. Meaning the letter you are trying to write can easily be your last shot to get your ex girlfriend back.

You can write about your shortcomings but be sure to shut up about your ex girlfriend's. Remember, she has no way of defending herself if you attack her on a letter and you would just about ruin your chance to win her back if your letter is too confrontational. Don't write about your ex girlfriend based on an assumption and do not assign blames.

If you want to win back your ex girlfriend, be sure to write about "you" and what "you" will do to make things better. You can say goodbye to your ex girlfriend the moment you start negotiating terms with her. You want her back, she's weighing her options, and this is no time to play hardball.

Write a letter to your ex girlfriend today, it will be a great opportunity to let her know you still love her. Continue learning more on the subject by visting Get My Ex Back .