Do you want to prevent yourself from losing your boyfriend? Are you afraid that by trying to get him back, you end up driving him away instead?

The worst can only happen if the factor that caused your break up was important and still is. If that is your case, it may be quite difficult toget your ex-boyfriend back.

If that is not the case, then you do not need to worry, you can reconstruct your relationship. Just concentrate on getting him back and leave everything else aside.

To start with, you should be who you are and avoid emulating whoever you want to be. Be the one your boyfriend first met and fell in love with. Not only will you get him back, but you will notlose your boyfriendagain if you can use human psychology to your advantage.

Immediately after a break up, it is hard to think of anything concrete and is very difficult to be normal. Therefore, I will advise you to get a hold on yourself before you take any actions. By doing so, you will also give your ex time to make his mind stable as well. And a little distance between you two will make you think of each other and that is a good thing when you want to get your ex-boyfriend back. After some time has passed, maybe you will forget about the reason of the dispute and talk with a positively approach with each other.

The appropriate time to talk about your relationship in order to find a way out will be when you both have a calm and clear mind. If your boyfriend cares for you and want to stay with you, then definitely he will do his best to make this relationship work. You will just need to have a little patience to revive what you lived for before the break up.