Are You Successful? Yes or No? Which Life are You Leading?Which life do you lead? Do you consider your life to be constructive or would you describe it as destructive to you and all around you. Both result from a chain reaction, one leading to a downward spiral and the other leading to an upward spiral. Is it failing exams, being told off for not going to school, failing your driving test, leaving your first job because you kept making mistakes and thought they would probably sack you anyway? Your subconscious mind constantly focuses on these negative situations. When a new situation comes into your life, say you get a new job; your subconscious gets to work analysing this new set of information. It takes it apart and compares it to what has gone before. …it simply takes the facts that have gone before and acts on them. In this case it sees a new job as something temporary and tells your conscious mind that you should expect all of the problems you have had before. A negative perception leads to lack of confidence, lack of motivation and ultimately depression. What chance does your new job have? None! This will impact on your wider life making it harder and harder to get what you want in life - so you sink deeper and deeper into depression. Is it playing with friends and siblings, holidays you have enjoyed, getting your first job? Busy relating new situations to all the good things that have gone before! If this person decided to set up their own business their subconscious would be saying something like this: Because they are focusing on success, they are looking forward to achieving it. This makes them feel motivated, which in turn leads them to take action. This action gets results so they feel more motivated (and happy!) and so it goes on. |