Studies have shown that interpersonal rapport is one of the most significant factors for having a devoted, attentive, and loving relationship to endure between the partners in a long distance relationship. To demonstrate to your partner that the relationship is important to you, try to respond to an e-mail, text, or phone message as soon as you are able. It is easy to communicate during the day by sending an e-mail or text message. Talking on the phone in the evening allows you to go over your day, much like you would do if you came home to him/her on a daily basis. Using technology such as as a web cam or Skype can add a little creativity to your communications.

When living in the same town, a traditional dating couple can see each other often and have more opportunity to share their thoughts, feelings, and aspirations. Since a long distance relationship does not provide close proximity to the partners, extra effort is needed. Being able to converse daily in some manner is one of the most advantageous methods to keep a good portion of yourself in each other's life. Cultivating that emotional connection is invaluable since you are not presently in a position to see each other in person.

To help cut down on phone costs, you can leave a "thinking of you" voicemail during those times you know he/she will not be home. When you do talk, it does not need to be for a protracted period of time. Simply sharing the normal ups and downs of your day, or asking for advice is beneficial in keeping that connection alive.

To help ensure the development and strength of your long distance relationship, sharing your feelings and communicating regularly with your partner is of paramount importance. This daily expression helps send the message that you are dedicated to making your relationship work.

Deborah R. is a masters level social worker and enjoys helping people. Are you trying to figure out different ways to bridge the distance? CLICK HERE or go to: to learn more ways of using the time apart to bring about the best relationship possible!