I'm sure you've probably heard that using the Secret, the law of attraction in your life is all about where you place your focus. That is true. Can't you feel the difference in your body when you're happy as opposed to when you're sad? Haven't you ever laughed in the middle of crying? That's how easy it is to change your emotions, to change your thinking - if you just learn how to do it. The Secret is real and it's all about learning to let good happen.

What shows up in your life is the positive and the negative. Haven't you noticed that? There are always,always,two sides to everything - the good and the bad, the negative and the positive. If you focus on the bad, it amplifies. If you focus on the good, that amplifies. It's all a matter of where you place your focus. If you can follow these seven steps, you can learn to let good happen.

Love and accept yourself unconditionally- This is key if you want to experience the good that is always available to you. If you don't love yourself, how can you feelgoodabout anything?

Embrace your dark side- Life is composed of negative and positive and so are you. To deny your negative qualities (which you may need to be able to use sometimes) is to repress and resist part of who you are. The very denial of yourdark sidereinforces its power. You remember the lesson fromThe Return of the Jedi- love wins out in the end. Embrace your dark side.

Tell a new story- Get off that old worn out tune how nothing good every happens. Start telling the story of the good in your life and watch how quickly your life can change. Make a list of your desires and give it up to the universe. Write it up in a story of how you would like your life to be.

Give thanks- for everything that is in your life, good and bad. Oftentimes our greatest gifts come wrapped in experiences that most consider negative. Look for the silver lining in that rain cloud and give thanks for it.

Open up your heartand be willing to ask the universe for what you really want. Feel what it feels like to have it. Experience it. Walk the talk as if it's already yours.

Observe and acknowledgeyour power. Empower yourself and magnetize your desires from the center of your heart. Marry that thought to your positive emotion and send it forth from your heart.

Do it!- Take action on your desires - follow your dreams. All you need to know is how to take the first step, the rest of the path will open up before you as you walk.

I think people are afraid to be open and risk themselves on their dreams. They're afraid they'll get hurt. So instead, they stay frozen in their locked cages not even aware that their hands hold the key.

I bet you think that following your dreams is not for you. I bet you've convinced yourself that you can't get what you desire. That is exactly the kind of thinking that keeps you locked in that cage. Look down at your hands - you hold the key. Only you can unlock the cage -because it's locked from the inside.