There is a train of thought, with some serious validity to it, that we can literally think reality into existence. This is to say that we can think about things, or situations, and by doing so we can make them real. This is some heady theorizing, but deserves a decent look. So what are law of attraction relationships?

There are as many different types of relationships in our lives as there are people to describe them. Relational realities exist between every thing and every other thing in relation to it. It can be argued that nothing of value can even exist unless it is in relation to some other thing. While difficult to determine, there is something to be sought in this wisdom.

Who we are as individuals is largely determined by what others think of us. We can be many different people in many different arenas. We call these facets of personality, but it is also an adjusting to any given environment. It is something we do all of the time, largely without conscious effort.

Understanding this, then, look at it from the standpoint of doing this social adjusting on a conscious level. How would you behave, and who would you be, if you made an overt effort at this becoming? The answer to this question may well define your true self. This true self will be an actualized self in the long run, or it would be hoped so.

Now take this one step further. Who would the people you interact with be if you could choose to create that stage? What sort of people would you intentionally attract? The answer to this question, too, will point to the essence of your truest sense of self.

Considering then, these people whom you attract, and the person whom you would choose to become, can it be argued that these individuals can be coerced into existence by the summoning of them mentally? Can we draw to us those whom we are truly interested in and deem attractive to ourselves?

Many believe that we, indeed, can. Many believe that we do so, and do so without the knowledge of this ability. The idea then is to take this ability not as some sort of ineffable chance, but to use it as an act of self will. Think about the relations you would like to have, concentrate on them, believe in them, and cause them to come to you. This is the law of attraction relationships.