Ever wonder why the Law of Attraction doesn’t seem to work for you? You’ve read the books, watched the videos, and you have got vision boards plastered all over your walls, but still you struggle to attract the things you want into your life. Don’t despair! Here are three secrets that will help you apply the principles behind the law of attraction so that you can begin experiencing success!

1.  You Attract by NOT Trying to Attract -  There is way too much emphasis placed on ‘attracting’ the things you want. Trying to attract something into your life does not work for most people, primarily because you only attract those things that are important to you, and that you focus on most of the time. You might say that you want to be wealthy, but if the majority of your attention, or focus, is on the lack of wealth in your life, or your bills, or debts, you will continue to struggle to become wealthy.  Only by changing your focus, by consciously choosing to shift your attention from the negative side to the positive will you experience success at creating your dreams.

2.  Consistency is Key - If you want to have any kind of success using the principles of the Law of Attraction you must be consistent in your efforts. No matter what you do, you have to do it with consistency. There is no substitution. You have to apply yourself and go after your dreams everyday. Not just on the weekends, or when you are in a good mood, or when you have time. Those are the attitudes that got you to where you are right now. If you want to change, you must commit to making that change every day. Half-hearted efforts produce half-hearted results!

3. Be Your Dream - This is the most misunderstood part of the Law of Attraction, but it is also the most powerful.  In order to manifest, or create, a change in your life you must first ‘become’ the change that you want. This sounds like an impossibility, but it’s not. What this means is that if you are trying to become wealthy, for example, then the first thing you must do is to become a wealthy person in thought, word, and deed. In other words, you must start thinking like a wealthy person, you must start talking like a wealthy person, and you must act like a wealthy person. How can you do that? How can you act, think, and talk wealthy if your are not? If you are broke? It isn’t as hard as it sounds, and you don’t need money to do it. You simply have to examine the thoughts and actions of wealthy people and seek to emulate them.

Taking control of your life and beginning to make changes is not difficult, but it takes conscious effort on your part. Sitting on the coach wishing for your dreams to come true will not work. Focusing on your desires and taking action on them WILL!