You already know how important it is to let go of any sort of neediness, desperation or attachment to manifesting your desires once you've set an Intention to attract them. Right? You do know that.
But sometimes as you ALSO probably well know, it's hard! When you really want that vacation, a raise, a new relationship, new clients, more time, a successful business, how do you let go of the attachment to it?
How do you stop yourself from being attached to the outcome?
1) Turn it over to the Universe- Write a list and get the Universe on the job. Throw a tantrum if you have to like I did last week! I told off the Universe for not doing the job, wrote a list of what I wanted, stuck it on the wall and said "All yours Universe, time for you to Step Up to the Plate thanks!"
2) Check your receiving radar- The Universe often delivers pretty soon after a demand like that! If you find yourself still sabotaging what you want, or if you get part of it but not all, sit down as ask yourself "am I really ready to receive"? There could be a block within that you may need to acknowledge and it's now up to YOU to make sure you're really ready to receive.
3) Change focus- After asking for something and giving it the energy etc, go do something else to take your mind of it. The more you start thinking about it, anxiety starts to creep in. So once the desire has been set, just stop thinking about it too much and wondering when it will happen.
4) Have Faith and Trust- Use words of trust and faith, belief and knowing that what you want is now yours in most magical ways. By refusing to wonder how, when, where etc, you're trusting that the timing is always perfect and although you can't see the bigger picture, you KNOW you'll get what you want when the time is right.
5) Are you in Alignment?- Check to see how you're still feeling about your desire. If fear has crept in, it's a reminder to manage your vibe and get re-aligned with what you want. This is a daily practice! Music, visualisation, scripting, day dreaming all work for me, find something that works for you.
6) This or something better- Repeat after me: "This or something better is now manifesting in my life for the highest good of all concerned." When you say this, instant peace :). Cos that's exactly what will happen.
Maybe something is on it's way that's beyond what you could have dreamed up for yourself. Have patience, trust the process and do your part by keeping yourself in alignment with your desires.
These are some ways to let go of that attachment, desperation and neediness for something. As soon as you start feeling any of that, practice one or the other of the above and it will help bring you back towhat's really important - being happy in the here and now.
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