Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women neverseem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends thatalways seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they werenever romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is.They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUTLEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, andit's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVERhave the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince Her To Like You"
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLYlike... but she's just notinterested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN"FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with"logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do youexpect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and doour best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think willmake them like us), us guys are always doing things to get awoman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up tothem... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "alwaysgetting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actuallyget ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chaseher around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner,bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someonewho didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to tryto buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women asover-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts atmanipulation. That's right, I said that women see this asMANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In The RelationshipWith Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make withwomen is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are beingapproached in one way or another ALL THE
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY bymen who are interested. This translate into dozens of times perweek, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends herrunning away faster than just about anything is a guy who startssaying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or twodates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the otherguys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLYfeels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Oris something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, Ican tell you that women usually have their "attractionmechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average andunattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... andthey're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they areto looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communicationcorrectly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerfulsexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexyyoung woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving upbefore they've even gotten started... because they think thatattractive women are only interested in men who have looks andmoney... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are acertain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in thesethings.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personalitythan his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can beone of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren'trich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body languageand communication correctly, you can make women feel the samekind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when yousee a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman forapproval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVINGAWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doingwhatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over...Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type OfSituation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at readingbody language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you'reout on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knowsit.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kissher, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous,she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissingher, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you willprobably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from onestep to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all theway to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having thekind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak orhelpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how tobe successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn'tknow how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I wasattracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted toask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I canstill remember that night... right on the spot I made thedecision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successfulwith women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazythings, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her numberalmost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, andI've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel thatsick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women...and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractivewomen.
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