Seducing your husbanddoesn't have to be a complicated affair and woman often overcomplicate things and believe that they have to go to extremes to seduce their man. The truth is that men are pretty simple creatures that behave in a very predictable manner. Your husband is really no different.
It doesn't matter if your husband is a stock brokeror a truck driver, he is probably as vulnerable to the same feminine charms that all men are weakened by. The difference between your man and any other woman's husband is that your husband chose you over all the other women on the planet to be married to. This means that at one time he found you more desirable and attractive than anybody else. Think about this and hold onto it because this is a truth that you can use to get yourself through any tough time that you might be having if you are feeling unattractive or unwanted.
Now, to begin getting the attentionthat you desire and deserve as his wife if things have grown stale the feminine art of seduction comes into play. For some women this comes quite naturally while for others it can be a struggle to learn how to flirt and seduce their husband.
To really win his heartand regain your rightful place as the center of your husband's life you should consider a four prong approach. Stimulate him mentally, visually, emotionally and physically and you will have successfully seduced him in a way that will make him more attentive and more affectionate.
Mentally– As much as you might think that guys go for ditzy women the truth is that they can only take them in small doses. What might be cute at first becomes quite annoying for most men and if you can keep up with your husband mentally you will earn his respect and admiration.
Ask him about his jobor a hobby that he has. Become involved and show a genuine interest in something that he does and enjoys. You don't have to become a competitor with him but showing him that you admire what he does or what interests him will make him feel important as well as help create a bond between the two of you.
Emotionally– Men do like to feel powerful and admired. Telling him that you appreciate what he does for you and how hard he works can make a huge difference in a man's ego. Men often measure their success not only in dollars but also in how well they provide for their family and their wife or significant other.
Make sure he knowshow much you appreciate the effort that he puts forth each day and you will help him to feel like a success as a man. Do the opposite and he will feel like a loser and you will see him retreat into himself and grow to mistrust you.
Visually– Men are very visually stimulated. This is why most men go to strip clubs and the like. Strippers art masters at seduction. Strippers are so good at seducing men that they are able to make a living at it. Take a few tips from some strippers and learn what it is that makes them so effective at seducing men.
Strippers use a combinationof revealing their body, seductive dancing and flirting to extract huge amounts of money from men every night. It can be a combination of eye contact, revealing clothing and sweet nothings whispered in a guys ear that cause his mind to disconnect from his wallet and give that woman anything that she asks for. Wouldn't you like to have that power?
Physically– Of course, the ultimate and final act of seducing your husband should include what most men think of when they think of seduction. Keep in mind though that flirting and teasing can heighten a man's arousal level and make him even more amorous than he might typically be. So be sure to flirt and tease… a lot!
As you can see,by using these simple approaches to seducing your husband you can literally have him wrapped around your little finger. Most men won't stand a chance and your husband is no exception. Try these tips out and see for yourself.
