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There are not a lot of things harder to face than ending a bad love affair. There are just no magical words you can say that will make ending an affair with somebody painless task, they just don't exist. However, in this article, I'm going to share some tips that might make the process a little less painless. Firstly, you have to be direct but remain sympathetic. Nobody likes a tactless person and ending an affair with something like, "See ya!" is not going to make you very popular. You need to maintain compassion for the person on the other side of the equation. This does to some extent depend on the person you are breaking up with, some people will not take no for an answer and then you are forced into being more blunt and forthright. When you address the issue with the other person in the affair, talk about the good times you've had. Let the person know you still like them and how much you have valued the time you have spent together. Not all breakups have to be ugly. Truth is, no relationship is black and white. There is always some good and bad, even in the ones that stay intact. By pointing out the fun times you have shared, you help ease the blow a bit. Then, firmly yet compassionately explain why you feel it's best to end the affair. Be as clear as you possibly can, so that there is no mistake or misunderstanding about your position. Nobody likes a "wishy washy" reason for ending things. Reasons like, "It's just not working" do not go over well. You need to explain WHY it's not working. Your partner in this affair deserves that much. Lastly, and possibly the most important tip, you need to take responsibility for your part of the breakup. It's never any one person's fault. Convey what you did wrong and how you didn't help the situation. Being honest through the process will help no end. Whilst it won help your partners necessarily accept the affair is over it will make it all go down just a little smoother. If you're looking for more information on this sensitive subject, check out the link in my signature. It is a review of a great resource that should help.
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