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“ I regret breaking up with my boyfriend .” That’s a sad statement, isn’t it? It’s also a very common one. Emotions can be overwhelming and in the heat of an argument we can make the sudden decision to split up with the man we love. If that’s happened to you and you are now wishing you could turn back time, there’s help. You don’t have to live with the desperation of knowing you’ve jeopardized your future with him. There are some steps you should be taking, starting now, that will smooth the way for a second chance with him. Regret is a very difficult emotion to live with. It can drive you to do things that you normally wouldn’t. Many women who break up with their man and then rethink the decision, resort to doing things like calling him while crying or begging with him to take them back. Doing any of these things will only hurt your chances of a future with him. The first thing you must do if you regret breaking up is to apologize to him. You have to do this while you’re calm and it must be genuine. It shouldn’t be long and drawn out. Just tell him that you realize you made a mistake. Leave it at that. It will help him to see that you are honestly remorseful. The next thing you must do to get him back is to give him some space. Whenever a person is dumped they feel a strong sense of rejection that they have to work through. Even if their former partner comes to them and says they want them back, the sting of the rejection is still there. Give him some time to himself. Don’t jump to the conclusion that he’ll run out and meet a new woman. He likely won’t. He’ll use the time apart to think about the better times you two shared and it will help him to see how much he loves you too. You need to be patient if you want to rebuild the relationship that’s been damaged. He’s not going to forgive you for breaking up with him overnight. It will take time for him to realize that it was simply a mistake. Granted it was a huge mistake, but he’ll come around and see that you do still love and need him. Don’t push him for a reunion during this time as that may backfire. Instead, continue to be supportive, be his friend and make it clear that you still care deeply for him.
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