How to get my man back after a break up? A break up always hurt a a lot of times, people want to get back together with their lover. If you are like most women, you do wish to get back together with the man of your life.

Before you begin doing anything, it is always a good idea to be aware of this fact. Many women fail to get their man back because they come off as being too desperate. Therefore, instead of winning their man back, they end up pushing their man away.

Therefore, if you want to get your boyfriend or husband back, you must remember not to make the same mistake. Here is a fact. No one likes desperation. Anything that smell of desperation is going to push people away.

Thus, you should never call your man umpteen times per day. You should never flood his cell phone with your text messages.

You should not try to beg him to come back. You should not plead with him.

All these things will not work. Sure, you may be able to get him to pity you. But that is not what you want. You want to make him love you instead.

Therefore, instead of over pursuing him, sometimes it is better for you to withdraw. Let him chase after you instead.

Instead of saying, "Please come back", say "I think breaking up is the best decision for both of us".

Instantly, you are showing him that you are not desperate and that you are a strong person. This makes you look more attractive and will increase your chances of getting back together with your man.