Why do people succeed? Why do people fail? Why do people get what they most fear in their lives?
Many people have heard, in many forms, "focus on what you want, and you will get it." So many people hear it, and yet few get there. Why? What is it that is stopping you and millions of others from getting exactly what it is that you want in your life?
There are a lot of things that have been said on it, but really the big point that so few get is a simple one.
Focus on What You Want: I want to be successful in my career, I want to have a loving relationship, I want to get an income of $5,000 a month.
Do you feel good about it? If yes, then you are on the right track, and it is a great start. Do you feel bad when you think about it? Then you are focusing on your LACK of it!
If you want to be successful making an income of $5,000 a month, and what you are thinking is "I will never make that much money…" then you are thinking about the fact that you don't have it and don't think you can get it!
I will give an example from my own experience. I wanted to be successful, but had some financial issues that made me fear being homeless. My focus was to make enough money to keep my house and NOT BE HOMELESS. So what was the focus? HOMELESS!
What did I get? Homeless. I spent months getting myself back into a condition of having a home of my own, and did get there. But the point was – I got what I focused on, even though it wasn't what I wanted.
This works in any part of your life. My wife was constantly talking about cancer, and I became a bit nervous about getting it. A couple of years later, guess what? I GOT IT.
This is a lot mentioned in several books related to the 11 new law of attraction. It is really the same thing – whatever you think of most of the time is what you will get. Do you want it? Great! Do you fear it? CHANGE IT!
If you want great health, tell yourself: I want GREAT HEALTH. Do you not want to get cancer, not get other illnesses, not be fat? Think of what you DO want, not what you don't. I want great health, I want to be fit, I want to be… You get the idea.
If you want to know more about these things, you can read books by Esther and Jerry Hicks, by Kevin Trudeau… Watch The Secret and What the BLEEP Do We Know? All these and a lot of others will get you on the right track.
Remember – feel GOOD about what you focus on. If you think about it and feel fear, feel depressed or upset, it is probably the Lack of it that you are thinking about. Your inner dialogue will say a LOT of where you are going to go in life.
Do you feel that you are a victim? Just realize, YOU CAUSED YOUR LIFE! Things you focused on, even if they weren't what you wanted, are what came about in your life. It may have been a bit more subtle than such statements as "I want to wreck my car… I want to be robbed…" More commonly, it was fear of those very things that caused them!
Do you have a direction you want to go in life? Decide to go there, feel good about it, and DO IT! I wish you luck and success in your search!
I am an independent inventor, and entrepreneur. It is my wish to help others find their dreams, and get their own success in anything they want in life. I believe we all are able to find incredible depths of success, and I wish to offer the same options to those who may not yet know of them. My site, is there to help others find people who have the success they want, and help them make the connections to find their dreams.
