Afraid To Use A Little Male Psychology To Get Him Back?

The thought of using male psychology to get him back might be very tempting after a breakup.The thought that there is a way to get your boyfriend to come crawling back to you begging you for another chance might seem very attractive right now. Everything is a mess and you miss him and you just want him back in your arms again.

But what happens if he figures out that he has fallen victim to your use of male psychologyto get him to come back? Ok…first thing you should know is that by its very nature the use of male psychology will go undetected by your boyfriend. He will have no idea that you are up to anything or that you are even attempting to get him to come back to you.

Secondly, he will be helpless to do anything about any psychological tacticsthat you might put into play to get him to come crawling back to you. It would be like telling someone that you are going to shine a light into their eyes. No matter how much they try they will never be able to keep their pupil from constricting. It doesn’t matter if they know ahead of time that you are going to shine a light in their eye or not…they are helpless to do anything about it.

Of course, your boyfriend might think that it’s a little weird of you if he did knowthat you were using male psychology against him to try to get him back….so you should probably keep this to yourself. But even if one of his friends were to tell him “hey buddy…I think she’s just messing with your mind in an attempt to get you to go back to her” he really isn’t going to care. He will be to focused on you and getting you back to be bothered with what his friends or family might say…and this is key.

You see, the method of using male psychology in itself plays off of a part of his brain that he has very little control over.It is the same part of his brain that tells him when he is hungry, when he is thirsty and when he is tired. It is the part of the brain that tells him that you are the woman that he loves and he needs you as much as he needs food. Get it? This is not a true “thinking” part of the brain as we might understand it. It is the part of the brain that deals with basic human needs…and one of a man’s basic human needs is to love and to be loved. When the fulfillment of that need is threatened he will react whether he wants to or not. It won’t matter what else is going on in his life or what other distractions he might have in front of him…even in the form of another woman, for instance. You will be the focus of his fulfillment of this need and desire and he will come back to you.

You should be warned though. The use of male psychology to get him back isn’t for the faint of heart.Yes, it is simple and easy and very effective but it does go against everything that you might believe about getting back together with your ex. But if you are thinking of using male psychology against him then there is a very good chance that your relationship has already broken down to a point where you are at a loss for what else to go to repair your relationship. If he isn’t talking to you or if your contact is minimal and he has told you that there is no hope…or if you feel that there is very little hope of him coming back then….well, what do you have to lose? You are already broken up. You can’t be more broken up than you are right now and chances are that if you don’t do something soon another girl will wind up taking your place if one already hasn’t. Time is definitely of the essence here and the use of male psychology might just be the most effective route to take right now to get him to come back to you before it’s too late.